Dave and Bethlie Young teach from Ephesians 5 on winning at leadership and submission in marriage. They explain that a strong relationship must come first, built through time, talking, growing, and love. Husbands are called to take the initiative with full responsibility before God, while partnering with their wife through discussion and prayer. Wives are encouraged to accept the partnership by looking to and leaning toward their husband, listening, discussing concerns, and praying together. With practical examples and over 33 years of marriage experience, they show how biblical leadership and submission create a happy, unified marriage when rooted in love and mutual respect.